Sunday, January 25, 2026

Life: It Goes On - January 25

 I'm hoping that this Sunday evening finds you less frustrated and in a better headspace that I'm finding myself. The cold isn't helping, the events of this weekend have me devastated, and my continuing battles with blogger have me so frustrated, I just want to ditch blogging altogether. I'd put together an entire post, but it hadn't saved beyond the first sentence. I still can't get Blogger to upload pictures (thanks Google), despite me spending a ridiculous amount of time trying to resolve the problem. I always brag that the skill that I would bring to the table in a crisis is an ability to problem solve. I'm beginning to think I've lost that skill - guess I'll be the first person tossed off the island if we're ever stranded on one! 

Last Week I: 


Listened To: I'm about half way through Nita Prose's latest, The Maid's Secret. Next up is Ann Patchett's Truth and Beauty, which I've been wanting to read for a long time. 


Watched: One Battle After Another, starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Sean Penn. Some really terrific performances, but very dark. 


Read: Not much. I think I'm going to have to give up on the book I've been trying to read this week. It's clearly not the book for me right now. 


Made: Hmmm, what did I make? We definitely ate and I know I was the one doing the cooking, but I can't remember what I made at all. 


Enjoyed: Time with the Big Guy's sister and her family yesterday, including their 3 year old great-grandson who is, of course, adorable, as most 3 year olds are. I'd show you a pic of him and BG playing; but, of course, I can't. 

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This Week I’m:  


Planning: BG's bday is this week and his present is going to require some work in the basement, which gives me a good push to get down there and clear some things out and reorganize things. More of that will get done when we get to 40 Bags in 40 Days, but for now, this will be a good start. 


Thinking About: Minneapolis. 


Feeling: It's hard to put into words. 


Looking forward to: Going to see Hamnet with friends on Tuesday. 


Question of the week: Last Tuesday I missed book club thanks to a migraine. Hit me with your best tips for working your one through one. 

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Wreck by Catherine Newman

Read by Helen Laser

5 hours, 26 minutes

Published October 2025 by HarperCollins


Publisher’s Summary: 

If you loved Rocky and her family on vacation on Cape Cod, wait until you join them at home two years later. (And if this is your first meeting with this crew, get ready to laugh and cry—and relate.)
Rocky, still anxious, nostalgic, and funny, is living in Western Massachusetts with her husband Nick and their daughter Willa, who's back home after college. Their son, Jamie, has taken a new job in New York, and Mort, Rocky’s widowed father, has moved in.


It all couldn’t be more ridiculously normal . . . until Rocky finds herself obsessed with a local accident that only tangentially affects them—and with a medical condition that, she hopes, won’t affect them at all.
With her signature wit and wisdom, Catherine Newman explores the hidden rules of family, the heavy weight of uncertainty, and the gnarly fact that people—no matter how much you love them—are not always exactly who you want them to be.


My Thoughts:

Apologies for no picture of the book. Blogger is not playing nice since I uploaded the most recent software update. I thought I had it figured out on Sunday, at least a work around; apparently not. 


“It’s like spending hours with the friend who sees your mess and loves you more for it.” - Alison Espach, Wedding People


Newman's Sandwich was one of my favorite books of 2024 so I was thrilled to see that she had written a follow up. While Wreck didn't quite measure up to Sandwich for me, it's still a wonderful read. Rocky is very much the same woman I so related to in that first book. This time it was all about living with anxiety - the constant worrying about everyone you care about, the constant concern about everything else happening in the world, and the constant thought that every medical symptom you have is definitely something more serious. 


Smart, quirky, sad – Newman knows what it’s like to live life with anxiety and how easy it is to lose yourself in it. This time, Rocky's anxiety is justified. 


The accident raises the question of how to separate a person you love from the work that their company (and, by extension, your loved one) does. And the weird rash that Rocky begins experiencing turns into one of the situations where medical experts remain baffled as more and more symptoms begin piling up. 


Add to that worry about Willa's crippling anxiety and Rocky's 92-year-old father's decision to move out of the guest room behind their house and back into his own home alone. I could just feel the weight of it all and how hard it would be to carry all of it. 


I highly recommend this one. But first, read Sandwich. And maybe talk your book club into reading both of them. 



Sunday, January 18, 2026

Life: It Goes On - January 18

Happy Sunday! It's grey and windy outside today, but it is above freezing and looking at the weather inWisconsin  reminds me that this is pretty darn good weather for January. 

Very frustrated today with trying to work on this post. For some reason Google wasn't allowing me to access or upload photos from my computer. I think what I've found is merely a work around, but I'll take it for now because I'm so frustrated. I absolutely hate when computer issues burn up hours of a day - anything I could have found to do instead would have felt more productive. 

Last Week I: 


Listened To: I finished Diane Keaton's Brother and Sister and Maggie O'Farrell's I Am, I Am, I Am - both so good. Next up, Nita Prose's The Maid's Secret


Watched: NFL football, college basketball (our Huskers are now 18-0, which is unprecedented in school history and very exciting!) and several more episodes of The Morning Show


Read: I finished Anna Quindlen's More Than Enough and I'm more than half way through Tayari Jones' Kin. 


Made: A ground turkey and rice Mexican dish, pasta with homemade beef/sausage marina sauce and I used the rest of that sauce with ricotta stuffed jumbo shells. 


Enjoyed: A brief visit with my brother, who stopped by on Tuesday to spend the night, and dinner and dessert with friends last night. 

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This Week I’m:  


Planning: 
I've finally gotten my bullet journal for 2026 ready and my last pages were to set up for Go-Simplified's decluttering plan for the year and 40 Bags in 40 Days, which starts February 18th. So I'm geared up to start this year's decluttering work. I fell behind last year, when my depression got bad, so there's more to do this year. Winter is a great time to get going since I have no interest in being outside of the house. 


Thinking About: Finalizing my dad's estate in the next couple of weeks. I'll be glad to have it done, but it will also be a hard reminder that my dad is gone. 


Feeling: Lazy, to be honest. I was feeling productive until I got stymied by this computer issue. And now I don't feel like doing much of anything. 


Looking forward to: Book club this week. 


Question of the week: How are we all doing making it through winter this year? 


Sunday, January 11, 2026

Life: It Goes On - January 11

Happy Sunday! Boy did the last week get away from me, blogging wise. I had everyintention of sitting down to create posts and even have a couple of books to review already. I'd like to tell you it was because we were extremely busy. But we weren't. Just struggled trying to find the motivation to do anything and still was taking down Christmas. There was a part of me that just wanted to toss half of it into boxes to haul off to charity. It's finally back where it belongs for 11 months of the year and the house is finally back in order and I'm feeling better now that things are back to normal. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I finished Lara Prescott's The Secrets We Kept and Catherine Newman's Wreck and am almost done with Diane Keaton's Brother and Sister


Watched: Loads of sports - college and professional football, college basketball - men's and women's, and pro volleyball. We also finished season five of Only Murders In The Building (can't wait for season six to be released), started watching Chad Powers (which the Big Guy is enjoying but I could live without), and I watched the first three episodes of The Morning Show with Jennifer Aniston and Reese Witherspoon (I'm late to the party with this one but am really enjoying it so far). 


Read: Anna Quindlen's latest, More Than Enough. I have several books on Netgalley I want to get to and also have picked up three books from the library - let's hope this reading mojo I seem to have picked up again lasts. 

Made: Steak and baked potatoes, Philly steak sandwiches, steak salads, chicken nachos, lima beans and chicken. In other words, we thawed meat and then used it throughout the week. Today I'm making Rice Krispie treats because in cleaning out the pantry last week, I discovered that I have a bag of marshmallows that has become one sticky mess. Those will go into work - we are trying to de-junk food this place! 


Enjoyed: We had met a couple many years ago, through my sister, and always thought we should get together. Friday we finally did that and spent a couple of hours talking and forgetting to eat, discovering we have even more in common that we thought we did, including both knowing a couple that we were friends with years ago but drifted apart from (they spent a lot of that time living overseas). We are so hoping that we can make contact with that third couple and the six of us can get together. 

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This Week I’m:  


Planning: It's time to tackle a lot of paperwork that has been piling up. 


Thinking About: How I'd be happy if winter just went on being snow free. We had quite a lot of rain the other day and I'm just fine if that's the way all of the moisture we need comes to us over the rest of the winter. 


Feeling: I'm cleaning off my dad's phone so I can pass it on and it's really stirring up the feelings. Who would have thought looking at someone's Amazon account would bring tears. 


Looking forward to: My brother is coming to Nebraska this week for a quick trip and we'll get to see him when he spends the night here one night. 


Question of the week: I've been working on setting up my 2026 journal/calendar. I still live almost entirely on paper when it comes to those kinds of things and I love it. Are you a digital calendar/to-do list person or do you still use paper? 

Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Mini-Reviews: Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea; Go Gentle; Wild, Dark Shore; Broken Country; Between Two Kingdoms

 All caught up now and ready for the new year! 

Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea by Jessica Guerrieri
282 pages
Published May 2025 by Harper Muse

Publisher's Summary: 
Leah O'Connor is torn between her current existence and the allure of a phantom life that can no longer be hers.

Swept off her feet by the gentle charm of Lucas O'Connor, Leah's unexpected pregnancy changes the course of her carefree and nomadic existence. Over a decade and three children later, Leah is unraveling. She resents the world in which her artistic aspirations have been sidelined by the overwhelming demands of motherhood, and the ever-present rift between herself and her mother-in-law, Christine, is best dulled by increasingly fuller glasses of wine.

Christine represents a model of selfless motherhood that Leah can neither achieve nor accept. To heighten the strain, Lucas's business venture, a trendy restaurant that honors his mother, has taken all his attention, which places the domestic demands squarely on Leah's shoulders. Seeking an ally in her sweet sister-in-law Amy, Leah shares a secret that, if made known to the wider family, could disrupt the curated ecosystems that keep the O'Connors connected.

As Leah dances with the devil while descending further into darkness, her behavior becomes more erratic and further alienates her from both Lucas and the wider family. Leah's drinking threatens the welfare of her family, prompting Amy to turn to Christine for support. A duel for loyalty ensues. When the inevitable waves come crashing down, it's the O'Connor women who give Leah a lifeline: the truth of what they've all endured. But Leah alone must uncover the villain of her own story, learn how to ask for help, and decide if the family she has rejected will be her salvation or ultimate undoing.

My Thoughts: 
Despite the fact that this one was only 282 pages, I still felt like it could have been edited down and I did feel like there were options for the O'Connors that would have allowed Leah to continue with her artwork while also allowing Lucas to pursue his dream of recreating his parents' former restaurant that would have avoided the conflict that fueled much of Leah's active addiction.

Still, this one felt like a good depiction of addiction, told from a couple of viewpoints and a good examination of what happens when a woman has children she wasn't planning on having. In this case, Leah very much loves her children, but she never stops feeling like she lost a part of herself when she had them. The publisher's summary seems to insinuate that Leah is the villain of her own story; that's untrue. The only villain here is addiction. 

Go Gentle by Maria Semple
384 pages
Published April 2026 by Penguin Publishing Group

Publisher's Summary: 
Adora Hazzard has it all figured out. A Stoic philosopher and divorcée, she lives a contented life on New York City’s Upper West Side. Having discovered that the secret to happiness is to desire only what you have, she’s applied this insight to blissful effect: relishing her teenage daughter, the freedom of being solo, and her job as a moral tutor for the twin boys of an old-money family. She’s even assembled a "coven"—like-minded women who live on the same floor in the legendary Ansonia—and is making active efforts to grow its membership. Adora’s carefully curated life is humming along brilliantly until a chance meeting with a handsome stranger.

Soon, her ordered world is upended by black-market art deals, secret rendezvous, and international intrigue . . . and her past—which she has worked so hard to bury—lands like a bomb in her present. Inflamed by unquenchable desire, Adora finds herself a woman wanting more: and she’ll risk everything to get it.

My Thoughts: 
I first encountered Semple's writing in 2010 and might never have picked up another of her books. But then came Where'd You Go Bernadette and the promise that I'd seen in that first book came to fruition in Bernadette. Going into this book, I wondered which version of Semple I'd get and was pleasantly surprised to find that, once again, I felt like Semple more than lived up to my expectations. 

There are some jarring jumps, which some readers may struggle with. There are also a number of things that will be tough for some readers. But once again, Semple's written satire that works on many levels and this is an intelligent read. Adora is a great character and it's nice to read a book about a middle-aged woman that allows her to be a full-fledged person. It's not a book for everyone but it is a book that I'll be recommending to a lot of my reader friends. Jump on board for the ride! 

Wild, Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy
320 pages
Published March 2025 by Flatiron Press
A Reese's Book Club pick 

Publisher's Summary: 
A family on a remote island. A mysterious woman washed ashore. A rising storm on the horizon.

Dominic Salt and his three children are caretakers of Shearwater, a tiny island not far from Antarctica. Home to the world’s largest seed bank, Shearwater was once full of researchers, but with sea levels rising, the Salts are now its final inhabitants. Until, during the worst storm the island has ever seen, a woman mysteriously washes ashore.

Isolation has taken its toll on the Salts, but as they nurse the woman, Rowan, back to strength, it begins to feel like she might just be what they need. Rowan, long accustomed to protecting herself, starts imagining a future where she could belong to someone again. 

But Rowan isn’t telling the whole truth about why she set out for Shearwater. And when she discovers sabotaged radios and a freshly dug grave, she realizes Dominic is keeping his own secrets. As the storms on Shearwater gather force, they all must decide if they can trust each other enough to protect the precious seeds in their care before it’s too late—and if they can finally put the tragedies of the past behind them to create something new, together.


My Thoughts: 
One of my favorite books of 2025, which those of you who have been around a while will find surprising when I tell you there's an element of science fiction to this one. Climate change is having a devastating impact on the planet with drought resulting in fires and dying crops and rising sea levels devouring islands and the borders of continents. 

The Salts have to get off the island soon, before it's entirely devoured. Their job is to finish collecting seeds from the seed bank to bring back to the continent before the seed bank is flooded. But members of the family are all dealing with grief following the loss of their wife/mother and they're also harboring a secret they hope will never be discovered. When Rowan is found washed up after a boat wreck, she's also harboring a secret. Despite that, the family and Rowan begin to form an alliance that might just be what it takes to get them all off of the island before it's too late...as long as those secrets stay hidden. This would make an excellent book club selection. 

Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall 
320 pages 
Published March 2025 by Simon and Schuster
A Reese's Book Club pick

Publisher's Summary
“The farmer is dead. He is dead, and all anyone wants to know is who killed him.”

Beth and her gentle, kind husband Frank are happily married, but their relationship relies on the past staying buried. But when Beth’s brother-in-law shoots a dog going after their sheep, Beth doesn’t realize that the gunshot will alter the course of their lives. For the dog belonged to none other than Gabriel Wolfe, the man Beth loved as a teenager—the man who broke her heart years ago. Gabriel has returned to the village with his young son Leo, a boy who reminds Beth very much of her own son, who died in a tragic accident.

As Beth is pulled back into Gabriel’s life, tensions around the village rise and dangerous secrets and jealousies from the past resurface, this time with deadly consequences. Beth is forced to make a choice between the woman she once was, and the woman she has become.

My Thoughts: 
Another of my favorite books of 2025, one I recommend to everyone. Hall's writing is marvelous and if I could have, I might have read this on in one sitting. 

There's a mystery to that death of the farmer, one that is slowly revealed as Hall moves readers from the past (Beth's and Gabriel's youthful love story) to Beth's and Frank's life together to glimpses into the trial of the accused murder of the farmer. These are well-written characters placed in a story line that allows each character room to explore why they are who they are. This one has everything I love in a novel - terrific writing and characters, a lovely setting both physically and in time, an emotional impact that stayed with me long after I'd finished the book. 

Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad
Read by Suleika Jaouad
13 hours, 2 minutes
Published February 2021 by Random House Publishing Group 

Publisher's Summary: 
In the summer after graduating from college, Suleika Jaouad was preparing, as they say in commencement speeches, to enter “the real world.” She had fallen in love and moved to Paris to pursue her dream of becoming a war correspondent. The real world she found, however, would take her into a very different kind of conflict zone.

It started with an itch-first on her feet, then up her legs, like a thousand invisible mosquito bites. Next came the exhaustion, and the six-hour naps that only deepened her fatigue. Then a trip to the doctor and, a few weeks shy of her twenty-third birthday, a diagnosis: leukemia, with a 35 percent chance of survival. Just like that, the life she had imagined for herself had gone up in flames. By the time Jaouad flew home to New York, she had lost her job, her apartment, and her independence. She would spend much of the next four years in a hospital bed, fighting for her life and chronicling the saga in a column for The New York Times.

When Jaouad finally walked out of the cancer ward-after countless rounds of chemo, a clinical trial, and a bone marrow transplant-she was, according to the doctors, cured. But as she would soon learn, a cure is not where the work of healing ends; it's where it begins. She had spent the past 1,500 days in desperate pursuit of one goal-to survive. And now that she'd done so, she realized that she had no idea how to live.

How would she reenter the world and live again? How could she reclaim what had been lost? Jaouad embarked-with her new best friend, Oscar, a scruffy terrier mutt-on a 100-day, 15,000-mile road trip across the country. She set out to meet some of the strangers who had written to her during her years in the hospital: a teenage girl in Florida also recovering from cancer; a teacher in California grieving the death of her son; a death-row inmate in Texas who'd spent his own years confined to a room. What she learned on this trip is that the divide between sick and well is porous, that the vast majority of us will travel back and forth between these realms throughout our lives. 

My Thoughts: 
I was familiar with Jaouad as the wife of musical virtuoso Jon Batiste, and familiar with her recent battle with leukemia through Batiste's movie American Symphony. But I knew nothing about how her battle had begun, how she had beaten leukemia previously, or how she and Batiste had come together. 

Jaouad writes in detail about how her symptoms first appeared, how she battled to keep moving forward with her personal life before she was finally diagnosed, the man she nearly married who stayed with her through much of her battle until it just became too much for him, and the treatments she endured as she fought the cancer. It brings home that fact that battling cancer requires a team far beyond the professionals in the medical buildings and how hard it is for patients to deal with that. It makes it clear how important finding a community that understands is, and how much someone has to want to live to be willing to go through what it takes to come out on the other end. Even though my family members have battled (and some lost that battle to) cancer, I learned so much from this book about what it takes out of a person and their loved ones and about cancers themselves. Jaouad was fortunate to be a skilled enough writer to find work that allowed her to work as much as she could and even to travel the country in search of other stories as she felt able. We are fortunate to have all of those stories.